NOTE:  I am thrilled with the wonderful (and/or interesting) responses to the Polyamory on Showtime series.  Due to time constraints, this is the reply you will receive….


Dear Fans/Haters/Friends & Lovers

 Thanks for writing!  I hope you don’t mistake the impersonal nature of this letter for a lack of concern.  As you can imagine, I’ve been swamped with mail and since I am already stretched between motherhood, many lovers, and coaching, I will enjoy reading your letter over tea in the morning and then save time by checking the appropriate response to address your inquiry. (Shout out to Robert A. Heinlein for coming up with this great idea!) 

(  )  I am so happy to hear that our show has helped you and your poly family be more fully expressed. Your story makes my work worthwhile! 

(  )  Thanks for the invitation, but as a general practice, I don’t send naked pictures or have sex with strangers.

(  )  I’m sorry to hear that I have disappointed you. I am still learning a lot about love and as imperfect as I am, I’m still willing to share my process. I hope to redeem your respect in future but I trust in the law of attraction and know we will re-connect if/when the time is right.  

(  )  Pirating is illegal. Please support Showtime by getting a risk free trial to Showtime Anytime, where you can watch all 7 episodes on your computer. (Showtime even has Free or Risk Free Trial periods.)  If you are international, try The Movie Channel,  I’ve heard it’s airing in Australia, Arabia, Canada, Jamaica, Holland, Denmark, Finland, Norway and Sweden, and more! If you cannot find it please write 

 (  ) My assistant handles all my administrative questions; your letter has been sent to her.

 (  )  We sure hope so! We will not know for sure until Showtime analyzes the ratings and orders a second season. If you want to send them your feedback please let them know your feelings at Your voice makes a difference, so be sure to ask if they’ll be selling the series as DVDs. 

(  ) I currently have a 3 month waiting list for private coaching. Write if you want to be on that list and in the meantime please consider doing one of my group tele-seminars where I can provide insight, inspiration, answer your questions and more! I am most excited about a revolutionary series I’m offering called, “Beyond Monogamy.” 

(  )  My family and I are happy to do interviews, radio & television appearances, but if you want to inquire about the show, we must submit your request for network approval.  Our Showtime representative will get back to you soon with details of how to proceed. 

 (  )  Wonderful! I would love for you to join me and my poly family for a wild 3-day weekend at Poly Palooza, in Desert Hotsprings Oct. 11th .

 (  )  My favorite books about poly and open relationships are: Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jeta, The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt, Opening Up by Tristan Taormino, Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits by Dr. Deborah M. Anapol,  The Polyamory Handbook by Peter Benson, and my favorite fiction is Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert A. Heinlein (sci-fi novel written in 1961.) 

( ) My books which are now due for re-print can be ordered at or directly from Sacred Sexual Healing, The SHAMAN method to Sex Magic with co-author Baba Dez and my novel, Don’t Drink the Punch: An adventure in Tantra. My DVD is the first instructional video about poly it’s called Earning your BLACKBELT in relationship with Reid Mihalko. 

(  )  Sorry, I don’t believe in hell, but thank you for praying to save my soul anyway. 

(  )  Your letter deeply touched my heart! Even though you said you didn’t expect a reply I want you to know how wonderful it is to hear from you. Big blessings to you and all your loved ones!

Infinite Love, Kamala Devi


If you’d like to join Kamala Devi and the San Diego polyamory family for a fun weekend retreat to explore firsthand how they do polyamory, check out Poly Palooza: Top 10 reasons to go to a 4-day festival for free lovers! or go to Poly Palooza: The Weekend Festival for Free Lovers

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