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“I pray for the universe to hollow me out – so the soul of the world can come through.” ~ KD

Sex and Love Addiction

Sex and Love Addiction

Let's talk about addiction. Because of my liberated lifestyle, people often ask if I am love or sex addicted. I typically define addiction as anything people do that 1) they cannot help themselves, 2) negatively affects the rest of their life. This criteria is helpful...

Returning to the sacred land of Bali for ISTA in March 2020!

Returning to the sacred land of Bali for ISTA in March 2020!

Pregnant in Bali....when I was 5 months with child, Michael took me on a “baby-moon” for a meditation/surf trip where we explored hot springs, tantric caves and had lots of wonderful heart-opening lovemaking sessions wherein we visions our future life together!...

Reliving our China honeymoon nearly 20 years later!

Reliving our China honeymoon nearly 20 years later!

The year was 2002. Michael broke up with me one night after only 3 weeks of dating because we lived in different cities and didn’t want to be in a long-distance relationship. I cried all night and finally called him at sunrise begging for him to take me back. Michael:...

????  Happy Poly-days!  ???? (December Newsletter)

???? Happy Poly-days! ???? (December Newsletter)

Dear Friends & Lovers, Have you heard this quote: "If you think you're enlightened, go spend a week with your family." ~ Ram Dass This statement is particularly true for those of us who are living our lives outside the box or in extraordinary relationships....

Hot Marital Sex Metaphor

Hot Marital Sex Metaphor

It's no secret that sex with the same person, over time, can become routine. Long term relationships tend to lose polarity, grow comfortable, and experiment less. The statistics on sexless marriages are staggering. And yet, after 18 years, Michael and I are...

Have you discussed your relationship boundaries lately?

Have you discussed your relationship boundaries lately?

My lovers and I use the stoplight ????Metaphore. Green means go for it! ???? It’s used to celebrate a win/win arrangement in which everyone is benefitting. ???? Red light means stop and check-in to avoid unnecessary suffering. (It’s like an...

The Soul of Brazil is Calling You in 2020 (November Newsletter)

The Soul of Brazil is Calling You in 2020 (November Newsletter)

https://youtu.be/4YAmj3PA0bk Friends & Lovers, Are you ready to dive into your deepest being? Come to Paradise, dive in deep and uncover your true freedom, power, and love. Join our week-long retreat facilitated by an internationally renowned teaching team and a...

LGBTQ Rights are Being Threatened: The Personal is Political

LGBTQ Rights are Being Threatened: The Personal is Political

Breaking news from the National Center for Transgender Equality: The Trump administration today announced it will allow anti-trans & anti-LGBTQ discrimination in all grants from the Department of Health and Human Services, impacting federal funding for foster...

Writing as Your Spiritual Practice

Writing as Your Spiritual Practice

Journaling is my spiritual practice. My writing partner, Cheri Reeder, caught me doing my “morning pages” in her back yard bathtub last week, but normally I do it in my bay window with a cup of tea or protein smoothie. The daily practice involves three pages of...

Poetry by KamalaDevi: This Lust for Life

This poetry came through my morning meditation, it's called: This lust for life. I long to experience you from the inside out to feel what touches you to devour whatever nourishes you, to hear what's between your ears It's insatiable, this hunger to gaze upon that...

Writing a book is a long game!

We just submitted the FINAL edits on our manuscript: 52 Fridays to Cleis Press! Check out the label on our designer wine...and while your zooming in...enjoy the sexy chapter titles from the Table of Contents. This book has been over 5 years in the making and we can't...

A Poem for HER

Although this poem could apply to the goddess that lives inside every man’s body, I happen to be fantasizing about my new lover and his inner feminine: A poem for HER she is hidden from the world veiled behind a man’s body accessible only through his secret vault...