Want to know which Polyamory books have had the greatest impact on our lives? Friends and Free Lovers at Poly Palooza made the following top 10 list of recommended polyamory books and resources with Amazon affiliate links.
As awesome as these polyamory books are, don’t forget the most important source of support is building a poly community. If you are are going to succeed in an alternative relationships you must have peers, mentors, and a supportive social network. Also, don’t be afraid to take risks and let others learn from your results.
“As a leader in polyamory, I’ve taken it upon myself to let the community see me fuck up so that they can choose to learn from my mistakes.”–Kamala Devi
Top 10 recommneded polyamory books and resources:
1. The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
2. Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg and Arun Gandhi
3. Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life by Byron Katie and Stephen Mitchell
4. Undefended Love by Jett Psaris and Marlena S. Lyons
5. Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
6. Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá
7. Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert A. Heinlein
8. Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits: Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships by Deborah M. Anapol
9. Polyamory Roadmap: Negotiate Open Relationship Rules with More
Pleasure and Less Heartache (from the Sacred Sexual Healing Series by
Baba Dez and Kamala Devi)
10. Earning Your Black Belt in Relationships: Get Intimate Power Now
by Learning 10 Secret Exercises of Ethical Non-Monogamous Ninjas by
Kamala Devi and Reid Mihalko